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Nicole Cleveland on MARRIAGE - Nicole Cleveland is a minister, motivational speaker and author of “So He Cheated, Now What?” She is also the founder of Breathe Again Magazine and host of BAM - The Radio Show ( www.breatheagainmgazine.org ) Nicole & her husband teach couples how to rebuild, restore and increase the love after infidelity. Visit her online at www.nicoleconline.com or email her at nicoleconline@gmail.com

Cook Your Own Food

Last month I made a post on my blog regarding dinner. What I mean by dinner is who cooks the food when you are dog tired. After spending the day out with the kids I was completely exhausted. My legs burned from going up and down the hills with the kids. On the way home we grabbed something to eat. I was in the clear...or was I? My husband worked all day so I knew he would be expecting dinner when he arrived home. Since the kids and I already ate, there was really no need to cook.

What does a wife do?
a) Tell him I ‘m not cooking and fend for himself?
b) Bring him home something to eat
c) Cook him a special meal

What did I do? I came home, unthawed a steak and made him his own special dinner. (and he ate every last bit of it and was happy he didn’t have to share)

Did I feel like it? Nope, but being as though I didn’t work all day and he would be expecting a meal, I did what I had to do. Marriage is about sacrifice and most important — PEACE!

This did not come overnight. I can remember many heated discussions in our home regarding dinner and being tired.  In marriage you grow and you learn. I’d rather have Jesus and I’d rather have peace.

Stay Blessed!







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